Old Photos, Mount Vernon, and Niblings

Posted by on Feb 27, 2019 in Blog, Double Cousins |

Old Photos, Mount Vernon, and Niblings

Last week I spent quite a bit of time scanning old photos into my computer. It could have been tedious, but instead it was bittersweet and fun. The pictures were ones I took during the first ten years of Aunt-hood. They were photos of my niblings (the gender neutral term for nieces and nephews—something I learned from a niece just yesterday.)


When my oldest nieces graduated I started a tradition of giving them a scrapbook of their life. It is a lot of work, but definitely worth it. So far I have completed five of the twelve. The most recent to graduate have been waiting two years for theirs. Sigh. So, I decided to get on it.


After all, I can’t fail to follow through on this tradition. That’s the challenge to starting things like this. You have to be fair, now, don’t you?

Which brings me to another event from last week, President’s Day. Last summer Bruce and I had the privilege of meeting my Marine nephew in VA and visiting George Washington’s home at Mount Vernon. He was state-side for some training and only a few hours from us, so we couldn’t pass up the opportunity. He was almost 22 and as I contemplated the last time I was at Mount Vernon, I realized I had been 22 at the time. Somehow it made it a bit more special. We had a great time, even though it rained ALL DAY LONG. Andrew said, “We are making more memories.” I told him that my goal for this trip was to make the switch from seeing him as an eight year old. After all, there are no eight year old marines.


When the niblings were each eight, or thereabouts, my sister and I would take them on what we ingeniously called “the eight year old trip.” Thankfully, we recently completed the last one ever. We treasured every one of those five trips, but they were a project and like I said before. . . once we started the tradition, it had to be finished!

Apparently I wasn’t the only one reminded of those trips. When I was sharing with my parents via phone about our trip with Andrew, my second niece Megan—sitting in my parent’s dining room—chimed in. “I didn’t realize you were offering twenty-two-year-old trips!”


“I’m not,” I said.  “Unless you get deployed overseas and fly in some place within driving distance. Then, I’ll come see you.”


Guess she took it to heart. She is graduating this Spring with an online degree from Liberty University in VA and will be coming out for the ceremony. Yep. Aunt Miriam and Uncle Bruce will be there. But just to be clear, we aren’t offering twenty-four-year-old trips either.